Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Christmas Eve

We spent Christmas Eve with the Ford Family. We all gathered at my parents house (despite the heavy snow storm) for dinner and then proceeded to do a small Nativity tour, and then sang Christmas songs, along with karaoke. (It appears that High School Musical is a hit!) We were fortunate to have the extra company of Steve and Calva Rich-we just love them and always enjoy their company!

My mom decided to do a completely non "Ford Family" traditional Christmas dinner this year. In absence of Corrine and her family and the Rich's, we had a Texas themed dinner: brisket, sausage, potato salad, Texas coleslaw, and rolls. It was fabulous and tasted so good on such a cold day. Dad, thanks for venturing out on your porch to BBQ the sausage-they were a hit and so worth the effort!

Darrin and Aly-
Darrin's eye had an infection...bummer, especially right before the Holidays.
Grandmother Nelson with Jack and Megan


Hhhmmm.... Reagan, Paige, and Jack (yes, our Jack) all played dress up. Jack is Snow White here!

Megan wanted her turn to be a princess too!!! Let's more like call her
the Christmas Fairy Angel.


Monday, December 24, 2007

Straight No Chaser-12 Days of Christmas

Merry Christmas with Grandma & Grandpa Allred!

Sunday, December 23, 2007-Grandma and Grandpa Allred stopped by to give the children their gifts. This year, Grandma Allred worked all year to make each grandchild their very own knitted sweater! We can only imagine how much time, tears, sweat, and patience it took to make them. I couldn't imagine a cuter sweater, in fact, I WANT ONE!! (light yellow please-just kiddin!) Mom will make sure that these sweaters are put to lots of use. They are just so perfect. The Allred's were very thoughtful in their generous gifts to our family this year-thank you. (We love the food storage package of goodies too...)


Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Dear Santa...Love, Mom

Dear Santa,

I ' ve been a good mom all year. I ' ve fed, cleaned and cuddled my
children on demand, visited the doctor ' s office more than my doctor
and sold sixty-two cases of candy bars to raise money to plant a
shade tree on the school playground. I was hoping you could spread my
list out over several Christmases, since I had to write this letter
with my son ' s red crayon, on the back of a receipt in the laundry
room between cycles, and who knows when I ' ll find anymore free time
in the next 18 years.
Here are my Christmas wishes:
I ' d like a pair of legs that don ' t ache (in any color, except purple,
which I already have) and arms that don ' t hurt or flap in the breeze,
but are strong enough to pull my screaming child out of the candy
aisle in the grocery store.
I ' d also like a waist, since I lost mine somewhere in the seventh
month of my last pregnancy.
If you ' re hauling big ticket items this year I ' d like fingerprint
resistant windows and a radio that only plays adult music, a
television that doesn ' t broadcast any programs containing talking
animals, and a refrigerator with a secret compartment behind the
crisper where I can hide to talk on the phone.
On the practical side, I could use a talking doll that says, "Yes,
Mommy" to boost my parental confidence, along with two kids who don ' t
fight and three pairs of jeans that will zip all the way up without
the use of power tools.
I could also use a recording of Tibetan monks chanting "Don ' t eat in
the living room" and "Take your hands off your brother," because my
voice seems to be just out of my children ' s hearing range and can
only be heard by the dog.
If it ' s too late to find any of these products, I ' d settle for enough
time to brush my teeth and comb my hair in the same morning, or the
luxury of eating food warmer than room temperature without it being
served in a Styrofoam container.
If you don ' t mind, I could also use a few Christmas miracles to
brighten the holiday season. Would it be too much trouble to declare
ketchup a vegetable? It will clear my conscience immensely. It would
be helpful if you could coerce my children to help around the house
without demanding payment as if they were the bosses of an organized
crime family.
Well, Santa, the buzzer on the dryer is calling and my son saw my
feet under the laundry room door. I think he wants his crayon back.
Have a safe trip and remember to leave your wet boots by the door and
come in and dry off so you don ' t catch cold.
Help yourself to cookies on the table but don ' t eat too many or leave
crumbs on the carpet. (you promised me last year you would lose some
weight with me so next year you and I could be a cute size two blonde...
ok, some requests go too far, but none the less.....
Yours Always,
MOM...
P.S. One more thing...you can cancel all my requests if you can keep
my children, healthy, safe and of course, young enough to always believe in Santa.

Saturday, December 15, 2007

A Little About Me!

Four jobs I have had in my life:

  1. Mail Delivery Person
  2. Nanny
  3. French Speaking Distributor Services for Nu Skin
  4. Real Estate Agent

Four movies I would watch over and over:

  1. Steel Magnolias
  2. The Family Man-love Nick Cage! Anxious for NT 2!!
  3. National Treasure
  4. Moulin Rouge

Four Places that I have lived:

1. Los Gatos, Calif

2 Austin, Texas

3. Redhill, England (London)

4. South Jordan, Utah


Four TV Shows that I watch:

1. The Biggest Loser

2. Grey's Anatomy-yep got totally sucked in with George, Izzy, Mc Dreamy, Burke (very sad he is gone), etc...

3. Criminal Minds

4. House


Four places I have been:

1. Belgium

2. France

3. Spain

4. England/Scotland


Four People who e-mail me (regularly, and non work related):


1. Dad

2. Heather

3. Lots of work people...Sorry!

4. Rinny

Four of my favorite foods:

1. Pizza

2. Hamburger and French Fries (real ones)

3. Steak and Cesar Salad

4. Really good home made soup!


Four places I would rather be right now:

1. The Gym or on my treadmill

2. England

3. Delray Beach

4. Boston


Things that I am looking forward to this year:

1. My children and watching them grow and learn

2. Finishing the yard-pavers here we come!

3. Trying cross-country skiing (I would like to try that too, dad.)

4. Maybe having another baby???

Friday, December 14, 2007

The Polar Express

The Polar Express on the Heber Valley Railroad-Yesterday afternoon, I was chatting on the phone with my dear friend, Corey Fairholm. (Corey and I are in the Primary Presidency together. She’s the president, the lucky one!) Any who, she mentioned that she was taking her family on the “Polar Express” that evening. I had told her that that was in the plan this holiday season for our family, I just hadn’t had the chance to get around to actually booking tickets, scheduling it with Darrin, etc…

Moments after we got off the phone, she called me back and said that ironically she had 4 extra tickets (2 adults and 2 children). I quickly called Darrin to see if he could actually leave work at 4pm today to make it to the 5pm train ride. He said he could… We met at 4:15, leaving us 45 minutes to drive to a 60 mile away destination in a snow storm…

Ok, after driving like a maniac (90MPH during a snow storm-I prayed the whole way, along with my white knuckles as we drove through Park City!) and several calls to and from Corey telling us we are cutting it VERY SHORT, we literally arrived at 5pm and ran up to the train as they were saying: “Last Call for the 5pm Polar Express!”

We had a lot of fun. Jack loved the idea of being on a real train-diesel engine to be exact, and Jack had to correct me. They served cookies and hot chocolate. We saw Mrs. Claus, elves, and of course, Santa! I think that is what was so special about that night. Jack was so excited to see Santa Claus. Santa passed out bells to all the children and to stay true to the story, Jack lost his bell! (Fortunately, we had Megan’s…) The excitement in the children, that’s what Christmas is all about. It truly made for a special evening-Thank you Corey for thinking of us!!!







Fairholm Family: Paul & Corey (parents), then Emily, Connor,
and the twins: Don & Blake







Thursday, December 13, 2007

Ford Family Pie Night

Ford Annual Pie and Ginger Bread Night-This year we started off the festivities at the McClellan home where we all gathered to make gingerbread home and gorge on all the various pies! Without much help from the children-other than eating the candy-I scurried to decorate our home. I can’t say that I am much of a decorator, but I surely had fun sitting with all my nieces and nephews. Sunday, December 9, 2007




Mommy & Jack

Friday, December 07, 2007

Yes I am a Republican and very conservative!


M E R I D I A N M A G A Z I N E
Mitt Romney Hits a Home Run
By Maurine Proctor

The full text of Romney’s speech can be found here and the speech can be seen here (www.mittromney.com).
Mitt Romney hit it out of the ballpark yesterday at the George H. W. Bush Presidential Library in College Station, Texas, as he delivered the speech about how his religious faith will affect and inform his presidency.
He was Presidential. He was thoughtful and inspiring.
Kathryn Jean Lopez, writing on the National Review’s blog, The Corner, said she had received an email from a plugged-in Evangelical who really was not a Romney fan and really didn’t want to vote for a Mormon who said:

It was a fantastic speech. He said what he needed to — not too much, not too little. At the end, the burden was on the American people — "Will you really keep me from the Presidency because of what I believe ... in a pluralistic society?”

And you know me — I say this only grudgingly. Couldn't have gone any better for him.

For months, pundits and Romney advisors have debated whether he should give a speech like the one John F. Kennedy gave nearly 50 years ago, allaying the fears of some who were worried about electing a Catholic president. Romney’s Mormon faith has been such a major topic in his candidacy that news magazines like Time and Newsweek have done high-octane front-page stories not so much on Romney or his take on issues, but on his faith.
The Washington Post reported that Romney had been torn about giving this speech, “telling advisers that he had a “comma problem.” Political journalists always follow his name by a comma, the words “a Mormon,” and another comma.
"If I give a speech about Mormonism," he complained privately, "I'll never get beyond the comma problem."
It has been a long-standing tradition in this country, that while a candidate’s belief in God and his values are important, questions of the intricacies of his faith or theology are off limits. But this campaign has broken those rules. In fact, it has been over the top. Rudy Guilliani has been asked by reporters if he considers himself in communion with the Catholic Church, and Mike Huckabee, among other things, has been asked if he believes Mitt Romney is going to hell.
Mitt’s speech invites the discussion about religion to a higher ground. He said,

There are some who may feel that religion is not a matter to be seriously considered in the context of the weighty threats that face us. If so, they are at odds with the nation’s founders, for they, when our nation faced its greatest peril, sought the blessings of the Creator. And further, they discovered the essential connection between the survival of a free land and the protection of religious freedom.

In John Adams’ words: “We have no government armed with power capable of contending with human passions unbridled by morality and religion ... Our constitution was made for a moral and religious people.”

Freedom requires religion just as religion requires freedom. Freedom opens the windows of the soul so that man can discover his most profound beliefs and commune with God. Freedom and religion endure together, or perish alone.

Like JFK before him, Romney used his speech to assure voters that his Church would not dictate his policies.

Almost 50 years ago, another candidate from Massachusetts explained that he was an American running for president, not a Catholic running for president. Like him, I am an American running for president. I do not define my candidacy by my religion. A person should not be elected because of his faith, nor should he be rejected because of his faith.

Let me assure you that no authorities of my church, or of any other church for that matter, will ever exert influence on presidential decisions. Their authority is theirs, within the province of church affairs, and it ends where the affairs of the nation begin.

Romney also affirmed that he would not be looking out for any one group of people as President.

As a young man, Lincoln described what he called America’s “political religion” — the commitment to defend the rule of law and the Constitution. When I place my hand on the Bible and take the oath of office, that oath becomes my highest promise to God. If I am fortunate to become your president, I will serve no one religion, no one group, no one cause, and no one interest. A President must serve only the common cause of the people of the United States.

A drag upon the Romney candidacy has been the charge of flip-flopping and lack of conviction and sincerity. Although no single speech can allay the questions some have raised about his taking conservative positions on gay rights, abortion and gun rights only for political convenience, he was compellingly sincere in this speech.

There are some for whom these commitments are not enough. They would prefer it if I would simply distance myself from my religion, say that it is more a tradition than my personal conviction, or disavow one or another of its precepts. That I will not do. I believe in my Mormon faith and I endeavor to live by it. My faith is the faith of my fathers — I will be true to them and to my beliefs.

Some believe that such a confession of my faith will sink my candidacy. If they are right, so be it. But I think they underestimate the American people. Americans do not respect believers of convenience.

Americans tire of those who would jettison their beliefs, even to gain the world.

Given the media scrutiny of his faith, it would be hard to call that statement convenient.
He became even more personal and fired with conviction with his expression of his faith in Jesus Christ.

There is one fundamental question about which I often am asked. What do I believe about Jesus Christ? I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God and the Savior of mankind.

My church’s beliefs about Christ may not all be the same as those of other faiths. Each religion has its own unique doctrines and history. These are not bases for criticism, but rather a test of our tolerance. Religious tolerance would be a shallow principle indeed if it were reserved only for faiths with which we agree.

That lays out the territory clearly. Criticize a candidate based on his religion and admit that you are on shallow ground, foursquare opposed to America’s most key founding virtues. What we share is what matters.

It is important to recognize that while differences in theology exist between the churches in America, we share a common creed of moral convictions. And where the affairs of our nation are concerned, it’s usually a sound rule to focus on the latter — on the great moral principles that urge us all on a common course. Whether it was the cause of abolition, or civil rights, or the right to life itself, no movement of conscience can succeed in America that cannot speak to the convictions of religious people.

Romney’s speech was important, not just because he addressed his own faith, but because he reaffirmed the place of faith in America at a time when faith is being severely challenged.

No religion should dictate to the state nor should the state interfere with the free practice of religion. But in recent years, the notion of the separation of church and state has been taken by some well beyond its original meaning. They seek to remove from the public domain any acknowledgment of God. Religion is seen as merely a private affair with no place in public life. It is as if they are intent on establishing a new religion in America — the religion of secularism. They are wrong.

The founders proscribed the establishment of a state religion, but they did not countenance the elimination of religion from the public square. We are a nation “Under God” and in God, we do indeed trust.

He’s speaking boldly about in an important, undergirding idea. It is America’s founding principle that our rights and freedoms come from the Creator, not from the government. The government did not give them to us and the government, therefore, cannot take them away.
What question about faith, then, is important to ask a candidate? Romney says it is this, “Does he share these American values: the equality of human kind, the obligation to serve one another, and a steadfast commitment to liberty?”
Romney asserts:

These American values, this great moral heritage, is shared and lived in my religion as it is in yours. I was taught in my home to honor God and love my neighbor. I saw my father march with Martin Luther King. I saw my parents provide compassionate care to others, in personal ways to people nearby, and in just as consequential ways in leading national volunteer movements. I am moved by the Lord’s words: “For I was an hungered, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: naked, and ye clothed me ...”

My faith is grounded on these truths.
America’s tradition of religious freedom has profound implications. Europe’s notion of state religions has left a legacy of beautiful, empty cathedrals. Islamic jihadists would accomplish conversion by violence. Romney says that it is the diversity of our cultural expression that has given the vibrancy, not only to religion, but to our freedom as Americans. Thus, he affirms,

You can be certain of this: Any believer in religious freedom, any person who has knelt in prayer to the Almighty, has a friend and ally in me. And so it is for hundreds of millions of our countrymen: we do not insist on a single strain of religion — rather, we welcome our nation’s symphony of faith.

Romney’s long-awaited speech on faith was in the words of columnist Mona Charen, “That was perhaps the best political speech of the year. It was well crafted and delivered with conviction and — this is unusual for Romney — considerable emotion. I thought his contrast of the empty cathedrals of Europe with the violent jihadis was particularly adroit. He managed to make this a speech about patriotism as much as about religion. Brilliant.”
You can’t ask more from a speech than that.

Sunday, December 02, 2007

A Week with Nanny and Papa

This past week-while Darrin was in Norway (he left right after Thanksgiving)-the three of us spent some time with my parents at their house. The children love spending time with their Nanny and Papa, and I could always use the extra help when Darrin is away. On Friday, mom and I ventured to WalMart (I really detest that store!). While looking for diapers, the children saw every which toy out for the holidays and of course they wanted everything-another reason why I hate the store. Any who, I caved in and bought them both a popcorn tin. The exhausted mother that I was (and am), I gave it to them before my dad had a chance to take Megan's picture. (Megan is actually wearing a nightgown from the Christmas I turned two.) You can see from the pictures that she was MAD when we took the tin away, even though it was just for a second. The drama child that she was, there wasn't even a tear shed...Mom (me) has all the reason to cry as Darrin flies to Texas in a couple of hours (and he just got back a couple of hours ago from Europe). Since Darrin hasn't been around, I am not feeling too festive this year, heck we don't even have a Christmas tree yet!









Sunday, November 25, 2007

Do I have a drinking problem?


I recently received my December issue of Health magazine, and as usual, skimmed through the whole magazine before I read each individual article. Under the "Healthy Body and Mind" section, my eyes caught the attention of a small boxed questionnaire: "Do I have a drinking problem?" Of course I was intrigued because if I replaced alcohol with my Diet Pepsi/Coke fetish, it could well apply.

Well, to find out for yourself, ask yourself these 4 questions:

1. Have I ever felt I should cut down on my drinking? Sometimes. When I realized that drinking a Diet Pepsi/Coke right before bed helps me fall asleep, I've thought maybe I need to cut back... It does NOTHING to keep me awake. Or now that my children love it more than Sprite! Ouch.

2. Have people annoyed me by criticizing my drinking? Well, no, not until my younger brother criticized me for drinking two full large Diet Cokes from McD's in a sitting...Hey it's better than the regular version.


3. Have I ever felt bad or guilty about my drinking? Does going to Harmon's multiple times during the week when they have their 5 for $12 sale on the 12 packs and I get cash out so that Darrin doesn't know how many times I went to stock up count???

4. Have I ever had a drink first thing in the morning to steady my nerves or to get ride of a hangover? Most definitely!!!!!



Editor's note-As much as I rationalize my drinking problem (diet cola that is), I do believe that there could be a lot worse things I could be drinking. I figure, as long as I can remain sane, healthy, and there for my children, hey, what's a couple of diet Pepsi's a day to get me through. (Also, I do make sure that I get 8-10 glasses of water throughout the day as well.) According to the article, if you answer "yes" to two or more questions, you should get help. For those of you: "Cheers!"

Temple Square Lights

Friday, November 23, 2007
Salt Lake City Temple Square Christmas Lights








Happy Thanksgiving 2007

We spent the day with the Ford Family (ies). It was Nanny and Papa Ford Family and the Adam Ford Family (Adam, Mandy, Paige, Reagan, and Tyson). We had lots of fun playing games, watching movies, eating, and more eating. ~Thursday, November 22, 2007~





Nanny & Grandmother (above)
Nanny & Megan (below)



Mandy & Tyson



Jack Allred



Papa fell asleep at the table after dinner...
it was apparently that good!


Reagan Ford


Megan Allred

Monday, November 05, 2007

Our Princess turns 2!

I can't believe that it was two years ago today that our sweet princess joined our family. We weren't expecting her for another week, but she was determined to come; we couldn't have been more thrilled to hold her and kiss her.

Megan is surely a princess. As Jack said this morning though, he is a King if Megan gets to be a princess. Believe me, there are times where I feel like they rule the house and Darrin and I are just servants to their needs. But there couldn't be anyone else that I would love more and do anything for than Jack and Megan.

Well, we started her birthday festivities yesterday with dinner and birthday cake with her Nanny and Papa. Megan just squealed when she saw them walk through the door. Nanny and Papa gave them her first doll house. Megan couldn't have been more thrilled. My dad-Papa-wanted to give her the "plane" set, but my mom said that she needed a doll house more. My dad mentioned that Megan loves Jack's toys! Dad, it's because Megan doesn't really have any of her own... When Megan woke up this morning, the first thing she did was go to her doll house. We have been hearing that doorbell ever since!


After presents, we enjoyed our family's favorite cake: chocolate cake, with chocolate mouse filling, and chocolate frosting. (Mom slaved all the way to Costco for it!) Needless to say, these children are definitely Aly's children-they love frosting, as you can already see. Megan couldn't contain herself through "Happy Birthday to you!" She just had to have a bite of that blue frosting (ok, that kind is kind of yuck). Megan surely like it though and that's all that matters.




Megan has her first Gund purse. She hasn't been able to part with it since. Her bathtub after getting it was unbearable for her. She just had to carry it with her, everywhere.